
Over the past couple months, I’ve been more of a garden gawker than usual.
In June, I was one of a group of garden communicators touring private gardens in Madison, WI. And last weekend I browsed a couple local garden walks. In Western New York, we have 13 smaller garden walks in area towns and villages within a 30-mile radius, 2 big city of Buffalo walks, and 90-plus Open Gardens that can be viewed on specific days throughout July. You can spend the entire month here looking at a very diverse range of gardening styles – and these are all free and open to the public.
I could stop this post right there. What other region does this on such a scale?
However, one does need to rant. So here’s a gentle one with my observations on what works and does not work when your garden is on a public or private tours. Keep in mind that impressions are made swiftly when people are on a mission to see a bunch of gardens in a relatively short period of time. And that I am likely guilty of a lot of this in my own garden practice.

Curb appeal! There’s some argument about how important landscaping is in real estate, but on garden tours, first impressions start with the front of the house. If it’s uninviting, visitors may never see the glories of the side and back gardens. For example I do like how the plantings here complement rather than overpower the strong lines of this house.
I’m finding I care more about neatness than I thought I did. There should be some kind of – how can I put this – plan or method to these front gardens. Nobody wants the meatball shrub-and-lawn aesthetic, but there’s a middle ground between that and an unkempt mini-field of perennials, most of which desperately need deadheading.

I don’t agree with those who would report such front plantings for “high weeds,” but neither would I hold them up as great examples of what to do. Meadows are great if you have the space and you know what you’re doing (as above).
Keep the manmade objects under control. It’s so hard to know when enough is enough with these. But at some point, a plethora of garden art can start to overcome the things one assumes most people are there for: interesting plants, whether they’re trees, shrubs, perennials or annuals. It’s best when gardeners achieve the best of both worlds, like a really unusual vintage metal wheelbarrow filled with some equally cool annuals (as seen at top)

Details. Here’s an obvious one: A stick-on product description was left on a container and because the plants inside the container were just barely making themselves visible above the pot’s edge, it was noticeable. Oh and the image above shows the only style of garden label I’ve seen that I like.

There are so many things that take minimal effort, but really help, like just pulling away leaves that are obscuring a walkway, or, as I do, mulching the small areas between particularly robust plantings.
Apropos of nothing, I loved the way this gardener (above) found to use shower curtains at the very back of her shady space.
Actually, even reading this small list kind of fills me with guilt. There are a few things I will really need to get to before Buffalo Garden Walk this weekend!
Walking my Phoebe girl every morning, I see people’s front gardens up close and personal. ;I wonder how someone could get their mail from the mailbox by the curb every day and not notice a weed or two or more, around it that needs pulling? Sometimes I just lean over and pull them. Looks so much better!
And this is why my nails are never clean in the weed growing months. I am always yanking a weed or two as I walk from house to garage on way to work.
There could be a problem doing that…what is a weed to you may not be to the owner of the mailbox. I had a neighbor “kindly” mow along the front yard where my wild strawberries were….sigh. He didn’t do it again after I explained but I had lost them for that year.
How wonderful to have so many gardens to see! In every garden we can find something to learn from. Sometimes we learn what we like and want to do. Sometimes we learn what we don’t like and what don’t want to ever do or see again. My pet peeve is seeing dead or dying plants, unless they’re attractive skeletons a la Oudolf’s “winter interest.” Wildflower zones can be tricky, because to have them seed for the next year, you actually have to let them go through the lifecycle. At this point of the year, the gardener in me itches to go cut them back, but I don’t want to mess with next year (and we have snakes I’d rather not meet). There are American Basketflower seeds out in the middle of our wildflower zone, but I’m not going in after them.
I agree Elizabeth – the moment we talk about our pet peeves is the moment we set ourselves up for judgement! Fine line to walk but you handled it well. I too dislike the “front lawn meadow” aesthetic. I wouldn’t report it either (the very thought makes me cringe), but IMHO it is not a design that works for a small urban or suburban space. A house on a triple lot perhaps can pull it off, but normal yards….nope. – MW
Marianne, I completely agree with you on the front lawn meadow look. I live in Aberdeen, Scotland and most front gardens here are small. When people go for the meadow look, it just looks like a someone hasn’t bother to cut the grass, and there are always dandelions, thistles and ever other type of perennial in there.
I opened my garden in 2021 as part of the Tours of Open Gardens. I am on a large country property with very expansive beds and it was a lot of work to keep everything perfect from week to week. I salute everyone who opens their garden, large or small, to the public.
I have fond memories of visiting Buffalo during the open garden days. I must say though that the house featured at the top of your post would have kept me away…