I love a good strong opinion. Something robust, well considered, and even backed up with a few facts and figures just to round it off.

For example it is my opinion that British gardeners should prioritise planting trees wherever possible, so that we can enjoy their shade during the rather toasty summer we’re having. When it gets hot we like to gravitate to the shade, so why not have more shade in the garden? That’s my opinion.

Plant Shaming

There’s one type of opinion I’ve really had enough of: plant shaming.

This is where someone declares, with nothing more than their own personal tastes in mind, that certain plants are morally unacceptable.

Here in the UK it’s forsythias, Photinia ‘Red Robin’ and shrubby potentillas that get looked down on, but in other areas there will be other things.

Photinia 'Red Robin'

Much depends on context, as demonstrated by this fine Photinia ‘Red Robin’

Terms like “car park fodder” (plants used in the landscaping of parking lots) are used by a particular type of gardener, one who has decided that their tastes are superior to those of lesser gardeners.

I’m sure these people think they’re being edgy and controversial. They probably think such opinions mark them as a true expert, people that others must listen to for some reason or other.

Variegated willow Salix 'Flamingo'

I don’t particularly like this variegated willow, but other gardeners love it

Dare I even suggest that such sentiments could even be an homage to the late, and very opinionated, Christopher Lloyd of Great Dixter fame. There are two schools of thought about Christopher Lloyd’s writing: some say that he was an opinionated eccentric, while others argue that he was actually rather pompous.

Maybe both views are right?

Different Plants For Different Gardeners

So many gardeners make life difficult for themselves.

They, more accurately we, go to enormous lengths to track down some obscure treasure that will likely break our hearts when it checks out to that great compost heap in the sky.

We lavish care and attention on plants because part of the joy of gardening is to push our own abilities.

Dasiphora 'Abbotswood'

Shrubby potentillas flower for months and ask little in return.

Other gardeners prefer a bit more certainty. For them the familiar and reliable plants are the better choices. Those same plants denigrated by the arrogantly opinionated self-appointed judges of taste are treasured by gardeners who want to spend more of their time savouring their gardens and less of their time fussing with their plants.

And then there’s the subject of colour.

Brightly coloured rose

If you like roses like this, grow roses like this…

Some gardeners like everything to be oh-so-tasteful, with muted tones and swishing grasses, while others prefer their plants to be bright and showy. In the same way people can be extroverted, so can plants and gardens.

Reliable And Cheerful

If you want to see truly amazing plants, go and visit your local public places.

Not botanical gardens or nicely tended paywalled places, look for public planting along roads and in public parks.

This is where you come across the plants that are extremely reliable but also nice and cheerful too. They have to be; public spaces can be unforgiving.

Penlee Park Penzance

Do public spaces have to be dull and uninteresting?

A lack of resources means that plants in public spaces need to get on with life without constant intervention, and public expectations demand plants look good for as long as possible.

Pollution, vandalism and carelessness, irregular watering… if a plant looks good despite these challenges then think how much better it could be in a private garden.

We should be looking at such plants as staples for our gardens, plants that will look after themselves while we spend time and energy on those plants that demand more attention.

Private Spaces

For a nation of supposed gardeners, Britain has a weird relationship with its public spaces.

Keen gardeners travel great distances to pay a sometimes eyebrow-raising admission fee to see some notable garden, but will assume public spaces are uninteresting. 

Public spaces have in the past had quite a notable status. The rise of suburbia and the idea that everyone could, in principle, have their own garden means that public spaces are often neglected.

Celosia trial RHS Wisley

It seems celosias are coming back into fashion

This in turn means less funding is made available to maintain and develop public spaces, so they become more and more neglected, so fewer people use them and the spiral of decline continues. Ironically it is the rise of gardening for all that has dealt a blow to gardens that exist for all.

Now gardening is something we usually do as individuals, in gardens hidden behind fences and walls.

This has created a culture where some horticultural efforts are considered more valid than others; certain plants have gone the same way.

Popularity And Opinion

There is absolutely nothing wrong with liking a popular plant. Or conversely disliking it if you feel that way.

The issue for me comes when some add social baggage to muddy the water. If a plant does well for you and doesn’t cause you any issues then it is a good plant to grow; it is not for others to dictate what you can and can’t like.

We can’t all be lavishing our attention on trevesias and other currently trendy plants.

Kniphofia red hot poker

For years red hot pokers were seen as tasteless.

Opinions are absolutely fine if they’re presented with sufficient self-awareness and avoid trying to shame those who disagree. The diversity of gardening is what makes it such an interesting sunject. We must ask the gods of gardening to deliver us from yet another knock-off New Naturalistic garden, or from roses and perennials in pastel shades against white ceramic paving.

Gardens should be like people. They should have quirks and personality.

Tall grasses in a garden

You don’t have to have a garden like this if you don’t want to.

And please… if a professional gardener or designer ever ridicules you or others, either in person or online, for your taste in plants just walk away. We might not all like the same thing but the plants you choose to grow are your business.