
Update on cues to care: I wrote this article for the members of my townhouse co-op as we face our next spring yard inspection. Here cues to care are prioritized, because some make a huge difference and others, not so much. All the yards shown here are small.
This post is for anyone considering reducing or removing their lawn, but I’ll speak directly to members of the Greenbelt Homes co-op (GHI).
So you’re facing the yearly yard inspection soon and you may be reminded of how much you dislike all the mowing required to keep your lawn short enough. Or maybe your lawn is full of bare spots, for a variety of reasons, that you’ll need to repair. If so, and especially if your yard is small, you might consider getting rid of your lawn altogether! Here are some ways to do that AND still pass a yard inspection – by creating a yard that still looks cared for.
The question of how to achieve this is very timely, and not just for co-op members. Laws and rules governing residential yards are increasingly in the news, including when the owner of the Long Island, NY yard seen above was threatened with a $2,000 fine. (Here’s the story in the New York Post.) Many were surprised that even prominent anti-lawn, pro-native plant advocate Benjamin Vogt criticized the homeowner for having such a messy yard, and urged her to incorporate cues to care in the yard.

What ARE “Cues to Care”?
Vogt defines “cues to care” as “signals to other folks that the landscape is intentional and being cared for and is open to humans being in it (aka it’s physically and aesthetically accessible).” Source. As a co-op member I think that’s a fine goal – that yards (and homes) look cared for, and not JUST when neighbors are trying to sell their house. Cues to care, like seating and paths, also benefit you, the member, by increasing the time you spend outdoors in nature. (The benefits of which are well documented.)
I’ve learned that cues to care are nothing new, having been written about for 30 years, with dozens of articles online about them. From my review, these cues are the most often mentioned, in order of their effectiveness in making your garden look cared-for:

First, if you have a lawn, create a clear edge between it and your borders. Notice on the photo right above, this new GHI garden looks great even in its first year, with clear borders around a lawn. I suspect the gardener will gradually enlarge her borders and reduce the lawn or even replace it with a wood-chip path. You can edge the border with bricks, metal, etc OR make natural edges with no materials needed.
If you don’t have a lawn, create clear lines between your planted areas and non-planted areas like paths and seating areas.
Hardscape is next in importance in making a yard look like a garden. That includes seating, patios, pathways, path edging, and structures like arbors.
Plant choices and arrangement. Use shorter plants (especially at the front of borders), and plant them in drifts or masses (which also helps pollinators find them). Choose plants that don’t spread aggressively, and include some evergreens to make your yard look like a garden all year long. In the photo above left, note the use of short plants along the sidewalk.
Extra features can add to a overall garden-like effect: yard art, pots, trellises, fountains and rain barrels, and bird baths.
Habitat support signage. Signs (like NWF certification) help neighbors understand your intent and may inspire neighbors to follow your lead, but they’re no substitute for good design and other cues to care. Unfortunately, instead of helping the cause of gardening for wildlife, habitat certificate signs are criticized by Vogt and other native-plant advocates when they’re used to compensate for poorly designed and cared-for gardens, contributing to the commonly heard criticisms of native gardens as messy.

What about attracting pollinators?

Vogt is using the terminology and research of Joan Iverson Nassauer who taught in the Landscape Architecture Departments of University of Minnesota and Michigan. See this link: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0169204619314033
I want to congratulate you on hitting on an important issue. I had in years past, stressed similar advice to my friend Mary. She had a wild garden that apparently looked unruly. I told her to tweak it to include “human presence” attributes that would convince the scrutiny of onlookers to admire the setting, not abhor the chaos. She did not heed my advice, and the town actually sent her a bill after butchering her yard. She loved every living thing and it was a hard sell to suggest that she prune or remove weeds that may benefit some life form. In suburbia, however, there is no grace given to afford sustenance to unhuman guests. She was devastated and in fear of their power ever after. This is a sad way to go when a little grooming with garden objects, chairs or pavers can help pacify the property police.
Glad you shared this, Susan. Cues to care are important even in traditional gardens. One of the most practical “cues to care” I can think of is keeping a good edge around the planting bed, maintaining 5 or 6 inches of bare soil between turf and bed edging. Bermuda grass is a noxious weed in North Texas. Once it gets into beds, the poor homeowner can never get it out without napalm. Seeing grass in beds screams to me, “I am not paying attention, and I don’t care.” Maintaining that edge enables Texas homeowners to catch invading Bermuda grass before it infiltrates the bed.