
A perfect late summer day: sleeve-fluttering breeze, a few puffy clouds in a powder-blue sky, pleasantly temperate temperature—it’s finally happening. The pure bliss of just being outdoors is all the more welcome after all the punishing suffering all the preceding days which were way too hot, way too wet, or both of the above. A long-awaited respite of fine weather is a well-deserved reward, a treat, a miracle. Wouldn’t it be a shame not to grab it with both dirt-stained hands and enjoy it to the very fullest?
It is easy to be consumed by the never-ending commitment of our garden tasks and chores. Those who lazily lie in that hammock or recliner will fall behind. There is always more to be done. Neighbors are looking over your fence in judgment. Social media talking heads exhort that you must add to your already overflowing to-do list. Even the slugs are busy, and not in a good way! Between “the early bird gets the worm” and “keeping up with the Joneses” we find ourselves in constant motion.

Let’s not forget that basic, child-like joy of just being in the garden. To be able to marvel at the unfurling of a new leaf, appreciate the intricate complexity of a blossom, or admire a sturdy stalk stretching towards the sky—isn’t this part of why we garden in the first place? Every day we may make a spontaneous discovery of something mysterious or even miraculous to inspire and amaze us.

Turn over a random leaf— what, or whom, is beneath? Last week a beautifully striped snail appeared, of a majestic splendor I have never seen before. Last summer a katydid put on a camouflage show that was downright magical to behold. These are rare, special occurrences. Blink and you might miss them.

Fellow garden residents the darting wrens and hummingbirds, bees and squirrels make their desperate survival circuits. We can appreciate their unflagging energy without imitating their perpetual rush and rapid heartbeats. Our contemplations are calming at the same time they pique the curiosity. Look up at those treetops are sinuously swishing in the wind. Look down at the spindly, spooky fungi springing up in those moist corners. Then, close your eyes and just relish that cool, delicious breeze. Ahhhh.
After months of respectable garden toil, surely we have earned a little downtime by now. So won’t you join me? Put those feet up and take a load off. Allow yourself the luxury of a few moments to loaf. Observe and admire your garden and all the wonders it holds. And if you find you just cannot resist the overpowering, ingrained urge to leap into action and deadhead this, water that, or whack the other? It’s OK, we won’t judge you.
I really appreciate reading this. I am so tired of trying to make things look good for the neighbors sake, when I am just, well, so tired!
Best wishes,
Tove
Thanks Tove!
Hope you enjoy the beauty you have created and find refreshment in it.
I was literally just talking with a friend about just being in the garden. Both of us must be in our respective gardens every day. She has a phrase “poco a poco”, little by little. That’s how we get things done. The heat and humidity have been brutal this summer in Miami so a little weed-pulling and a little propagation here and there is how we have to work.
Loved your post and pictures.
Thanks Marilyn—“poco a poco” are good words to live by! I hope you get some relief from the H&H soon.
I realized 2 years ago that just 5 mins. a day = 2/12 hours per month of gardening. Committing to just that has made a big difference.
Time is precious, now you can value every second like it’s a minute!
Thank you for such a lovely reminder of the importance of ‘just being’ in the garden. Time seems to stop at that moment when something captures my attention and I drop into the infinite quietude of nature.
Best wishes for many more magical days ahead.
Beautifully said, Catherine— “drop into the infinite quietude of nature” is just gorgeous. Thank you!
Maybe 3 times this summer, I sat outside and read a book. It hit me: this feels like I’m on vacation. Why don’t I do this more often? It’s hard to sit still outside, yet inside, I manage to scroll and waste hours on my laptop.
So true, Susan! Nature doesn’t manipulate us into addiction like our screens do. But the rewards can be far greater. Thanks for the observation!
This makes me want to sneak off for the afternoon to seek after a stripey snail! Always feel refreshed after reading your posts. Thank you!
Thanks, and I hope you do sneak and seek, Mary Ellen! The snails are waiting..