It’s a sombre time in the UK as most of you will be aware.
Perhaps time for us gardeners to think about reflection in our gardens.
Whatever various worthy people might like to tell us, gardeners know that a garden is not simply a place of restoration and healing joy. Gardens fill us full of worries, disappointments – and battles with those creatures we can no longer call ‘pests’ but which challenge our efforts daily.
And should we sit down, glass in hand, for a few minutes of quiet reflection, we are quite likely to spot a weed, a loss, or a mole hill.
So peaceful reflection perhaps requires something a little extra and we did make a space in the garden which is intended to make this quietness easier: the Reflecting Pool.
Which, of course, has physical reflections and is a place which you might think lends itself to reflection. There is not much opportunity for weeds and perhaps not much work to be done, apart from cleaning the pool out once a year and keeping the hedges cut.
Initially it seemed impossible to think of making such a pool, especially since there is really nowhere that the garden is flat. But one of the spaces (they get called ‘garden rooms’ of course) created by our yew hedges was only slightly tipped, sort of crosswise. The biggest trick is that I realised that for reflections a pool doesn’t need to be deep. So we had it made six inches deep.
This reduced the weight of water dramatically. When making a pool you have to consider how heavy water is, or disaster will certainly follow. Charles built us a different pool, above the terrace, and was saved just in time by a chance visit from an engineer, who warned him that he needed to reinforce the pool. So the pool below is entirely wrapped in reinforcing mesh, which I trust is not rusting.
Because we sit right below it – it is to the left of this drinker, behind his reinforced wall.
Snakes like it!
Anyway, that is not the relevant pool. That one was originally for the inevitable wild life and fish, which did not get on well. I’m currently telling you about the Reflecting Pool. No fish. No wildlife, except flies.
So the Reflecting Pool is shallow, and the area supported by a relatively modest and affordable retaining wall.
To create the reflections we add a black dye. It’s essential for the reflections, and as a bonus it helps keep it fairly free of algae. It’s a food dye and perfectly safe – we use it in the bird bath too and birds happily drink the water and also bathe in the water. Those are quite disgusting habits to combine, but the birds thrive, and can be seen belting round the garden all day. I’m happy to report that visitors often remark on the happy birds.

They don’t pose well…
The Reflecting Pool is too deep for bird dipping though, and only pigeons play in it, leaving horrible slicks of grease on the surface. Sigh: even here we can find unpleasantness and sometimes disasters. What did I say about gardens? (Though swallows bomb around above, catching the flies. Huzzah.)
Surprisingly, when we have visitors, this is the noisiest part of the garden – there is something about the hedges on one side of the Pool Garden that makes people play. Which is hard luck on anyone fancying some quite reflecting time. They need to slope off to the woods then for that.

An unusually quiet group of visitors
But here’s fun:
Reflective water is a beautiful thing, especially in sunshine. Though you do need to consider what your pool will reflect before you build it. A stray telegraph pole or the local cement works can be distracting. Blue sky possibly helps the magic, so do organise that.

stillness helps

but shimmering is nice too

winter brings its own pleasures
But I do know we can’t all have a great big pool for our reflections. Birds dominate a bird bath, but they do add to the charm. And when they are not bombing around, there you will find reflections are to be had.
With small children around, you may prefer to do without water.
There are many ways to reflect.
Extra.
Some people suggested I might wish to refer to our new King’s gardening or garden. I have visited Highgrove – in company. And one of us wrote about it. Here you are.
Anne,
Millions of Americans joined via TV in celebrating the life of The Queen. (No other queen will likely ever be known as “The” queen.) She was a remarkable lady whose presence in the world was felt and appreciated by many.
Jumping topics . . . your clipped hedges are RIDICULOUSLY stunning! Best I have ever seen!
John
Thank you – for both those things. Xx
We have just installed a pond so your post made me consider what does the water reflect? Currently what I see are a bunch of drowning worms who decided to end their lives in the bottom. Eh? Your photos show how lovely a reflected surface can be. Love the photo of the undulating hedges and the young women. Was it staged?
My condolences on the Queen. She was a remarkable lady who led an incredible life. What more can be asked for?
I was totally disconcerted when I first filled the reflecting pool – then discovered the dye. Phew!
I think that photo was photoshopped. (Disgraceful..but we rarely shoot our visitors)
And thank you re the Queen – it is an enormous loss for us all.
The man who built our house and all of the stone walls and bridge, installed three “bottom stones” – on the bridge when he [later] raised the stone walls slightly on the bridge itself. Three cast cement ‘stones’ shaped like three bottoms. His wife and two daughters would sit on the bridge in the very early days, quietly reflecting on the small pond below and feeding the minnows & crayfish, and he wanted to commemorate that. It’s where I fell in love with my property on that first walk through – and where I now sit and do a fair amount of reflecting myself. A bit more active than your reflecting pond I know (especially with ducks), but a place to be quiet. Lovely post Anne. xoM
That sounds just right and a totally proper place for reflecting. I like the sound of the activity, which can hardly be terribly disturbing.
I clicked on the link to your fish story. I have a Bob. Though we call him Hannibal the cannibal. He has eaten anything else introduced to his tiny pond, a 100 gal. sunk horse trough. He refuses to die but grows fatter and fatter. He is a gold carp.about 12 years old. Won by a nephew at the county fair.
Then I clicked on your story about the boxwood blight. I thought I had that. Then I realized that it was the cat. The one my husband walks on a leash. He was letting the cat spray on my boxwoods. When I told him don’t let the cat do that, his responded but t he likes too. You know where I am in the hierarchy of my husband’s affection.
Always love seeing your garden.
Bob got very fat too. It starts so innocently, doesn’t it, then scoff scoff scoff….. How long do carp live, I wonder?
Wish it had been a cat causing our problems, especially a very spoilt, special one!
Carp can live into their hundreds. Bob and Hannibal will probably outlive us all.
Huh. Let them try!
Reflecting on reflections: your post stimulated many thoughts of my own. Loved the photos.
Thanks Pat!
Thank you for this beautiful story, Anne. I’m going out to reflect on this beautiful autumn day in Kentucky.
I think autumn is an especially reflective time. Especially in the sunshine….