Wild is now The Thing.
This has made me review some of the plants in the garden. I am deciding which weeds I will choose to live with. As opposed to those which may sometimes get culled if we’re lucky. (cleavers)
One weed we live with is ground elder. (Aegopodium podagraria) It has been an odd spring – unusually dry after a mild, dry winter, so I find myself wondering whether the garden will behave peculiarly this year. It’s always an anxious time, May, waiting to see what plants come back, looking desperately, wondering what may have given up on me. And when plants are covered in ground elder you – and I – have to wonder whether the garden will turn into a field of ground elder.

But here the hostas are popping up through the ground elder. Who will win???
It never has before. What normally happens is that in spring ground elder fills many of the garden beds and borders (what is the difference between a bed and a border?) This gives a nice green effect, and pleases me much more than bare soil, which I detest as an invitation to – oh! – weeds! Errr – well, the ground elder flowers are as good as the recently fashionable ammi major, and I am told, last better in a vase.
And we even truly have a small ground elder garden, on purpose.

Love it!
Summer
Then the tough old plants which I love begin to muscle their way through, and by summer the ground elder has become background. Or apparently vanished.

No visible ground elder but lots of very robust plants.
Will this year be an exception? Will my best trick fail? I can only wait and see.
So let’s think about some other weeds.
I think colour may be a critical factor.
I’ve been looking at creeping buttercup and meadow buttercup as they pop up everywhere. I have pink roses coming out and really buttercup yellow doesn’t flatter them.

Buttercup yellow with this? Nah.
However, when contemplating which weeds we can accommodate, perhaps as useful ground cover, it’s worth remembering that none usually flower for very long.
A different pink though – and I think the combination is a delight.

Geranium macrorrhizum and Ranunculus
And daisies go with buttercups, don’t they? Or dandelions in this case. This is not so much about No Mow Maying as a little neglect followed by pure delight.
Some weeds are simply rather inconsequential – depending perhaps on the size of your plot – and may even be rather pretty.

Not even sure what this is but it has a cheerful shiny leaf.
Rosebay Willowherbs
There are places where I have ruled out indulging rosebay willow herb. (Chamaenerion angustifolium) I have managed to get it out of the rose bed and mostly out of the Front Garden, – except in the white form, which is a star performer. (The reason some of the ordinary form remains is that sometimes you don’t know which is which until it flowers. Though the white flowered usually seems to have white stems.)
And in the Crescent Border I’m happy for it to follow its fellow: Chamaenerion angustifolium ‘Stahl Rose‘.
I noticed recently that Noel Kingsbury decried this when he wrote a proper critical review of Veddw (the first and sadly the last such thing in there) for Gardens Illustrated in 2006:
He said “the brave decision (or maybe a pragmatic one?) to let rosebay willowherb rip, makes the border look uncared for – but perhaps this is our problem – this is after all a splendidly colourful and structural plant..” I wonder if he is more reconciled to the wild look now – he sounds there to be moving in that direction.
The meadow is full of weeds, which is rather the point of a proper, 200 year old, meadow. They are called ‘wildflowers’.

The lesson of a meadow is just how many dozens of plants grow happily together in a square yard.
And I suppose we all know that sometimes it’s hard to tell a weed from a wildflower or a garden plant. This picture is of a wonderful splash of yellow – a dwarf bamboo mixed in with a euphorbia of some kind and who knows what.
I think in many parts of the garden the euphorbia might be a weed, but anyway, this combination is so yellow that nothing much in amongst it is visible. It looks mildly, fashionably wild, perhaps. Then the bamboo does this later in the year, so who cares about what weeds there may have been?
But for all this, there are intolerable weeds. One of which is cleavers (Galium aparine) which drapes itself over everything and makes things look derelict. Here’s one of the weeding people, dealing with armfuls of that.

Useful bloke, that….
Derelict
However, on the whole, the warning by our gate applies: we garden to enhance the natural, not to conquer it.

Terrible?!
And strange about derelict. I’ve fallen in love with these steps looking derelict. Why do they appeal to me? Partly because I know and can see that some of the plants that have seeded into the steps are Proper Plants. (You can pay good money for wild strawberries and geraniums) Partly because they are all still little. Partly because I’m rather entertained by the notion of tolerating a bit of the garden looking as if it’s definitely getting the better of us. And in the spirit of
What would the world be, once bereft
Of wet and of wildness? Let them be left,
O let them be left, wildness and wet;
Long live the weeds and the wilderness yet.
Gerard Manley Hopkins.
What is a weed? Any plant growing where it’s not wanted. Hence can be anything. We get to choose who stays or goes. I like to take a wait and see approach and have discovered some delightful ones that get to stay. However, fireweed and the variegated ground elder are banned. Beautiful and maybe even elegant in bloom, in my neck of the woods these plants are way too rambunctious and smother everything else. Like you say ‘the meadow is full of beautiful weeds’
I suppose I would love, above all, for people to find a place in their hearts and gardens for the rambunctious. In my experience they don’t smother all and they do have a role to play if we can find it. Our meadow seems to accommodate the dominance of one rambunctious plant in succession to another, with many minor specimens finding their place in the parade.
Your push and pull of what stays and what goes reminds me of James Golden’s “View from Federal Twist.” I am slowly submitting my garden to nature like you and James. I am jealous of your white-blooming rosebay willowherb. I don’t know why a circumboreal weed has not found its way to Kentucky.. “Long live the weeds and the wilderness yet.” Lovely. My frost weeds (Verbesina) and ironweeds (Vernonia) will stay. Thank you, Anne.
I wondered for a moment whether we might appreciate someone breeding us more good plants from weeds, then realised that’s not native or natural, so might not suit Americans?
No American dared plant the native, Joe-Pye weed until English cachet arrived with the introduction of the new and improved (?) cultivar Eupatorium purpureum ‘Atropurprureum’. Permission to plant was granted. Thank you.
Oh! You’re learning then! Love that plant and the original…… (just currently chopping down in expectation of later flowers.
A bunch of us were just this week mulling the same questions re our native packera aurea – Golden Groundsel to those who love it, Ragwort to those who don’t. Give an inch, it takes a mile, but way preferable to invasives like stilt grass, attractive rosette nearly-evergreen foliage, and ok flowers if you mow them before they turn to dandelion fluff and take over the rest of the world.
Sounds like you know which ones to use and how!
Thank you for sharing what is rambunctuating in your garden — and weaving in some poetry. I like your wild steps; my gravel paths look the same.
Maybe we could start a cult for ‘rough and well loved patches’..
Much as I love to let Nature do her thing, there are some weeds I cannot abide. Bermuda grass, of course. And it’s cousin in annoyance, crabgrass. Pimpernel and chickweed. Storksbill. Several I have no name for. And particularly insidious this year, having attempted to plant a lawn of drought-tolerant micro-clover, burr clover. By the time I realized it’s the wrong kind of trefoil leaf growing so exuberantly, it was half the yard. But the lippia – I’m doing all I can to encourage it to take over.
I guess we all have weeds we hate, which is what may cloud our vision sometimes regarding the odd ones which have something good to offer?
I suspect cleavers gets more than its share of attention because there’s no need for bending over. A yank (or a brit?) on its topknot gets the whole thing, all the way to the ground. Few other weeds are so accommodating.
LOL, that is clever & funny !
Ah – but only when it has matured a little. When it is new it breaks off and laughs in your face.
I love this, Anne, but I think you know I would! I tried to grow seed of Chamaenerion angustifolium (brought from the UK) but I guess I just can’t grow some weeks.
You’re right. Nature has hundreds of ways of laughing at us.
What a great article. There are persistent weeds in my garden that can indeed smother things — I will battle wild Adenaphora until I die. But others I ought to relax about. In fact geranium “Rozanne” has probably smothered more things in my garden than any weed. The welcome weed revelation has come from observing no-mow May. (Susan Harris’ counsel notwithstanding.) Creeping buttercup is all over, previously kept from blooming by the mower. I never knew I had pink clover as well as white, but it’s evident now, and some sort of small vetch. Also Self-Heal (Prunella vulgaris). And all the little bulbs had time to drop their seed, so I’ll hope for more flowers there in a few years.
Adenaphora sounded interesting – but I see there are 62 varieties! Your lawn collection sounds like a good lot of wild flowers to me – though vetches can be a real pain in places.
Alas, I have no weeding people to help me in my overly large gardens, that seemed manageable in my forties. Now, as I approach my seventies, I am forced to become so much more relaxed in my gardening “style”. Does it make a sticker that imbeds itself in the dog’s massive amounts of fur? if yes, then it’s out. Is it a nonnative that provides no benefit for wildlife? Then off with its head. Does it take over an entire area as the violets and mountain mint seem to be striving for? Then let it be, with my gentle blessings.
Have to confess weeding people are a great thing!
Love this post. My gardens are a mixture of random plantings of perennials mixed in with acceptable/desirable weeds. I’m a big fan of so-called weeds with exceptions of course. Cleavers are horrid. Also garlic mustard and sheep sorrel. Your pretty weed with the cheerful shiny leaf and lavender flowers is Glechoma hederacea, or ground ivy or Creeping charlie or gill over the ground. I devoted an entire blog to weeds called mylovelyweeds.blogspot.com.
Thank you – and a whole blog on lovely weeds is a wonderful thing! Brilliant.
Personally, I favor Fleabane. It flowers all summer long and from a distance, looks like baby’s breath. My guilty pleasure is Dame’s Rocket. It comes and goes in my yard, so has never been a problem.
Had to look fleabane up – that’s not a weed! That’s the perfectly respectable, much loved Erigeron karvinskianus ! And Hesperis matronalis seems fine too in the uk!
What a lovely poem. I also love a little ‘wet and wild’ in the garden. I seem to have an affection for garden thugs, and often sit back and watch them duke it out each year. One of my favorite weeds is Commelina Communis, or Asiatic Dayflower. I think it may also be called Mouse Ears, which fits perfectly, as the flower has two true blue petals that look like.. well… mouse ears. I have it growing in the narrow strip of dirt between the driveway and the neighbor’s fence. If I had my way, I’d pull out everything but that and let it take over, but my husband likes to grow his sunflowers there. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Commelina_communis
Thanks for the link – that’s a new one on me. Looks as if sunflowers would happily grow through it.
I have this pink flowering weed I’ve never been able to identify. for a minute I thought it was dames rocket but the leaves are smooth and smooth edged. The flower has 5 petals not 4. It self seeds happily, pulls up easily. I shake the seed heads wherever I want them when the first flush dies out. Then I get a second bloom.any thoughts?
Wish I knew – sounds good!
I think I found it! Sweet William catchfly, Silene Armeria.
Ah – yes, described here as a self sowing annual – and ‘invasive’ in the USA!
Great post! So interesting.
I have to admit to silently screaming “NO!” when I saw your dear weeder pulling cleavers bare-handed. I have to cover myself head to toe in body armor (translation – armour) when pulling what my husband (and my dear weeder) call Velcro plant. The little sticky cleavers stick to my skin and I have a horrible rash if I handle it too much.
My own above mentioned dear weeder worked very hard over Memorial Day weekend trying (and I know in vain) to dig up and eliminate Ruellia nudiflora, aka Mexican Petunia, that although native, I think, and somewhat pretty, spreads extremely aggressively and has roots that reach down almost as far as Bermuda grass roots. I think I even hate it almost as much as Bermuda grass. Yet, on the other hand, I have had Phlox pilosa spread from one 4″ pot to half my yard, and it doesn’t bother me a bit. It’s easy to pull out of places I don’t want it, and the butterflies love it. So it gets to spread all it wants.
Then you will be even more horrified to hear that our gardener’s dog loves to eat cleavers! (not enough to clear the garden though, sadly) I’m interested to discover that your other plants are unobtainable in the uk. Maybe best if they stay that way?
Maybe so. You certainly have to be careful when it comes to Ruellia spp. as they not only spread by roots, they shoot their seeds out like popcorn whenever water hits their seed heads, and I think every single seed is viable.
Phlox pilosa, aka fragrant phlox or prairie phlox is an early spring bloomer that is native here in the prairies of the US. I haven’t seen it in nurseries here either. I got it at a native plant meeting years ago. It’s very similar to Phlox divaricata in appearance. Maybe you can find that species more easily, as it’s more commonly sold in nurseries – at least here it is.
Phlox divaricata – I just recently bought that – and I’d love it to spread!
The worst weed that has ever crossed my path is Bermuda grass. I curse the day it became the turf of choice for Texans. The second worst is bindweed, which swallows gardens whole the minute you turn your back. Otherwise, live and let live. From what I can tell, Noel has mellowed over time. I wonder if you would allow him back to see how the garden has developed since he saw it?
I was minded to allow bindweed once (https://veddw.com/general/bindweed-yes-or-no/) but it is too vigorous and too associated with dereliction, so I am (mostly) getting rid of it now. Not easy, is it?!
Noel was a frequent visitor and friend when he lived nearby and he would of course be welcome again if he were ever to return for a visit from Portugal.